A Decade of War Pushes PTSD To the Forefront in Healthcare Concerns

Vet­er­ans are often viewed as exhibit­ing brav­ery and val­or in the face of dan­ger, all in hon­or of uni­ty.  But it is not uncom­mon for many of them to end up des­ti­tute, and strick­en with men­tal ill­ness and social with­draw­al stem­ming from their days in bat­tle, expe­ri­enc­ing death as often as one might expe­ri­ence breakfast. […]

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Courtroom Tug-of-War

I’ve lived two lives. The for­mer was one rid­dled with despair, wor­ry and con­stant frus­tra­tion. The begin­ning of adult­hood for me was a bite much big­ger than I could chew. Just 22 years old, a new moth­er of twins fin­ish­ing a BA at NYU, I found myself in the mid­dle of a cus­tody bat­tle with […]

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“Champagne Life” for Def Jam Executive’s Birthday Bash

It was cham­pagne life last Thurs­day night at Shawn “Pecas” Cost­ner’s 40th birth­day par­ty host­ed by Hot 97’s Ang­ie Mar­tinez. The Vice Pres­i­dent of Def Jam Pro­mo­tions and renowned music indus­try exec­u­tive cel­e­brat­ed on the roof deck at Stu­dio Square in Asto­ria Queens with a star stud­ded crowd. The décor was beau­ti­ful with the white leather couch­es, the back­drop of Manhattan’s sky­line, and […]

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Love, Politics and an HIV Test

I saun­tered in a black hal­ter and pur­ple peek toe stilet­tos, my sum­ma­time (sic) shoes.  I walked over to the bar, ordered a com­pli­men­ta­ry spe­cial­ty cock­tail, apt­ly named “Love,” and sipped for just a few moments before I was joined by a gen­tle­man dressed in red.  A red tie that is, one of two colors […]

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Why African-American Books Should Be Required Reading for All Americans

Black his­to­ry is not just for Black peo­ple. Just as the world is not paint­ed in “50 Shades of Grey,” and Amer­i­ca is a melt­ing pot of fla­vors, those aspir­ing to be well-cul­­tured put on their tech­ni­col­or glass­es, stepout­side their com­fort box, and expose them­selves to some­thing they may not already know.…Read more at Ebony.com

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[CONFESSIONS] Making Peace With My Mother (and Myself)

First, I thought I had malaria—the infec­tious dis­ease born from par­a­sitic mos­qui­toes that infil­trates blood cells result­ing in death—but lat­er learned the only par­a­site was a bun­dle grow­ing inside me that pro-life activists called a bless­ing from God, but my moth­er deemed shame­ful.  The excite­ment of spend­ing 4 months study­ing abroad my senior year of college […]

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Confessions: Lost Him Found Myself

It was in the nights I spent let­ting my tears trick­le onto my laven­der pil­lows, that I often won­dered why Apple nev­er cre­at­ed an app for heart­break.  iHurt seemed like a fit­ting name. The idea could hard­ly be nov­el in this time when any­one with inter­net access could upload, down­load, or Google all of life’s answers if they […]

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